Etiquette
Consideration · At the start of our date, please present your donation tucked into a card, book (yes, I specifically made a list of books for this purpose hehe), or envelope. If meeting privately, please leave it in the bathroom.
Hygiene · I always arrive freshly showered and minimally-scented, and I appreciate if you’d do the same.
Gifts · Never expected, but I adore gifts; tokens of affection delight me. If you’d like to learn my taste, see my Wishlist.
Longer dates · I prioritize longer dates because they feel more organic and give our chemistry space to build. For dates over 3 hours, please plan to build some public time in. Fancy an overnight? I’ll need 7 hours of uninterrupted beauty rest and a morning espresso in order to be my best :)
Outfit requests · I’m happy to wear any of the lingerie you’ve seen me in. I accommodate outfit requests when possible (as long as they’re within reason given the scenario). If there's something specific you'd like to see me in, you’re welcome to purchase it in advance (for sizing, refer to my wishlist page).
Screening
Screening is an industry-standard process and is mandatory for all new admirers. It helps me feel safe and fosters trust between us. Your information is always destroyed upon verification.
I’ll request your legal identity either via your ID and/or your LinkedIn profile, plus a selfie with a thumbs up.
Discretion goes both ways; I don’t participate in review culture and ask that you refrain from sharing details of our encounter with others.
Deposits
I require a 20% non-refundable deposit to hold your requested date/time. I offer several options for deposits.
I accept Venmo, Cashapp, Apple Pay, and gift cards.
Tour/FMTY deposits are non returnable.
Cancellations
Advance cancellations - I’m happy to apply your deposit towards a future date (within 1 month) if you let me know at least 48 hours in advance.
Short notice cancellations - Same-day cancellations will incur a fee equal to 50% of the total booking. I lead a full life so I’ve likely turned down other dates that day to see you!
Refunds - In the unlikely case I need to cancel, I’ll refund your deposit asap.
Lateness
I’ll absolutely try my best to accommodate your schedule, but please note that if you’re running over 15 minutes late it might cut into our time together. If I'm ever running behind schedule, I'll see you for our full date length.
